You remember the loss. Of course you do. The year your portfolio fell, the sting of watching numbers shrink, the tight feeling in your chest each time you checked. And yet the year it rose by a similar amount barely registered, a mild satisfaction that faded by dinner. Why does the fall live so much louder in you than the rise?
You are not weak, and you are not unusual. You are simply human, and the human mind is built with a quiet bias that researchers have named loss aversion. In plain terms, losing something hurts roughly twice as much as gaining the same thing feels good. A hundred rupees lost stings more than a hundred rupees gained pleases. This asymmetry is wired deep, and it served our ancestors well. On the plains, the one who feared loss survived. In the market, that same instinct can quietly undo you.
Loss aversion does its real damage through timing. When markets fall and your holdings drop, the pain is not abstract; it is visceral, and it demands relief. The mind insists that the only way to stop the hurting is to sell, to make the falling numbers stop. And so investors, gripped by a discomfort that feels unbearable, sell precisely at the moment when doing so locks in the very loss they most feared. The fall was on paper and might have passed. The sale made it permanent. The instinct that felt like protection was, in truth, the trapdoor.
The fall was on paper and might have passed; the panicked sale is what makes the loss permanent.
You cannot delete loss aversion any more than you can decide to stop feeling cold. But you can build around it. The simplest defence is to look less; a portfolio checked obsessively will feel far more painful than one reviewed calmly a few times a year. Decide your plan in a quiet moment, when no crisis is pulling at you, and let that calmer self overrule the frightened one later. Understand before you invest that markets fall, sometimes sharply, that this is normal and not a signal, and that past falls and recoveries never promise how the next one behaves. Most of all, name the feeling when it comes. A bias you can see arriving has already lost half its power over you.
In twenty years of sitting with investors through frightening markets, the difference between those who recovered and those who did not was rarely knowledge. It was the ability to recognise a very old instinct for what it was and to not obey it. The fear you feel in a falling market is real, and it is human. It is simply not, most of the time, good advice.
Hardik Joshi is the Founder of Shrey Wealth (ARN-255332), an AMFI-registered Mutual Fund & SIF Distributor and APMI-registered PMS Distributor (APRN-02027). Shrey Wealth is NOT a SEBI-registered Investment Adviser; views shared here are personal and for educational and awareness purposes only. Mutual fund investments are subject to market risks; read all scheme-related documents carefully. Past performance is not indicative of future results.